Yesterday is gone. Another day has come. Yes, another day for yet another post. And today’s post is all about why my blog and your blog are likely to fail together. Yes, the word there is fail!
We deal with humans and in as much as far as blogging is concern, human beings make up bloggers and there is no doubt I am human as well and this human being behind Kabenlah.com is a blogger. Hahaha!
Dealing with human nature is really funny and really difficult to understand. We as humans do behave in an interesting way which sometimes likens to something else. Hahahaha!
Guess what my friend Little Johnny did after successfully securing a job at a printing.
Be careful who prints your wedding programme.
Little Johnny, who was printing a wedding programme was asked to put 1 John 4:18 in the programme but he made a mistake and instead printed John 4:18.
1 John 4:18 says, “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear; because fear has torment. He that fears is not made perfect in love”
John 4:18 reads, “For you have had five husbands, and he whom you now have is not your husband…”
Hahaha! There is a guarantee my friend will be loosing his job in no time. Hahahaha! Let move back to business as usual. The main reason for writing this post and as the title rightly state, why my blog and your blog are likely to fail together? Why?
And the first point that comes in mind is,
1. If I see you as an enemy and you see me as your enemy.
Bloggers behave like the hyenas, it is really difficult to tell when they are angry and when they happy. Just the like the hyenas, they always laugh whether they are happy or sad.The blogging world has all sorts of people and there is of course no doubts there are people who are likely to hate and popping champagnes if your blog becomes obsolete. I personally do know one blogger who saw me more or less like a threat and was more interested in my downfall and always boosting about how great his traffic are compared to mine.
But he failed to understand was that, there are more than 1 billion people using the internet so receiving a few thousands a day is like a drop in a mighty ocean or hitting the thighs of an elephant with a pebble. It is quite unfortunate he i s no more. His blog is no more and that is of course a pity.
Seeing a fellow blogger as an enemy is one of visas one can acquire of leaving the blogging world. So my blog and your blog are likely to fail to fail together if you see me as an enemy and I do same to you as well!
2. Comparing your Alexa to Mine
Another way of sensing failure in this blogoshere is that thing called Alexa. Many of us are soo much into it that, most people love comparing their Alexa to the rest of the world. What do I stand to achieve if my Alexa is higher than yours? I guess you might be thinking of advertisers but please let me be point blank here, advertisers aren’t just interested in your Alexa but the quality you deliver is what matters to them. So please, the fact that my Alexa is higher or the fact you have an impressive Alexa doen’t mean we should envy each other for that will surely lead both of us to failure.
3. Calling myself pro and seeing you as a Newbie
It is indeed astonishing the way and manner bloggers go about calling themselves probloggers looking down on bloggers who just started. Seeing yourself as a problogger and looking down on the rest is just like digging your own grave in this blogosphere.
Accord respect equally to every blogger and please don’t just see me as a newbie!
Please I think it will be prudent to take over the mantle by commenting below. What do you think are likely to cause blogging failure between me and you? The world would love to hear your voice on this.